Monday, October 26, 2009

While I was surfing the internet...

...I found these links worth sharing. (Ever notice that I just love to do the little "..." thing? Hey, it's my blog, right? :-)
http://www.drurywriting.com/keith/sins.of.old.age.htm
Old age isn't for sissies. Very interesting and beneficial reading for anyone who loves or works with older people. At the bottom of the page is a link for comments, etc.

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Also found this link that is full of interesting information and clean videos, etc. It's like Netflicks. www.christiancinema.com

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Perplexed

about pictures, Picasa, per cent of storage, programs, preferences....

I can't load any more pictures to my blog right now. Guess I will have to investigate.

I was hoping to post a picture of our new (to us) vehicle-a 1997 Suburban. Guess it will have to wait. I do want to say just how thankful we are for this blessing.

Thursday, October 15, 2009

Love this quote

From "One Night With the King" the story of Queen Esther- "Perhaps, instead of asking questions of our trials, our trials are meant to ask questions of ourselves. "

Wednesday, September 30, 2009

13 Ways to show you appreciate your pastor



October is Pastor Appreciation Month. So I want to take a minute and say how thankful I am for the remarkable pastors I know. Pastors take on a lot of responsibility--and I'm not talking about cleaning the fellowship hall or plunging toilets. I am talking about the real work pastors are called to do--to teach us of God and how we are to live and to warn us of danger.
So, let's encourage our pastors and their families. Here are a few ways to start:
1. Say it! Thanks and we love you!
2. Refuse to gossip to or about them.
3. Assume they mean well. Put things in the best possible context.
4. Tell them something specific you learned from the sermon.
5. Pray for them.
6. Realize that they are human, not angelic beings. They may say or do things that they instantly regret. Unfortunately, we tend to judge them more harshly than we would others.
7. If you have disagreements with them, handle them in a biblical manner. Go directly to them. If it isn't resolved, go through the proper channels until it is resolved.
8. Don't destroy the positive influence they may have on your children. A few careless words can set a child's opinion forever.
9. Whenever possible, agree to do a task when asked. It is frustrating to try to fill positions.
10. Pay attention in service--you can balance your checkbook or clip your nails later.
11. Don't hold the pastor's kids to a higher standard than you do your own.
12. Put yourself in their shoes. Treat the pastor and his family as you would want to be treated.
13. Show up at church prepared to worship!


So, Jason and Leah,
Charles and Leora,
Darrell and Lizzy,
Chad and Aimee,
Joe and Martha,
Uncle Jerry and Aunt Becky,
Uncle Albert and Aunt Della,
Joe and Susan,
Rick and Margaret,
and so many more....


Thank your for your love and sacrifice and for diligently giving of yourselves on our behalf. May you be blessed abundantly beyond anything you can ask or think!

Sunday, August 16, 2009

Kind words and a gentle spirit...

Kind words and a gentle spirit are two key ingredients of true beauty.
Sis Frankie Goins is a picture of this. She is positive, humble, pleasant and always happy to see you. Who wouldn't like someoone like that? She is loved and respected by young children as well as adults. She has a way of seeing the best in people.

She is a good listener, can be trusted with secrets, and gives wise counsel and encouragement. She was my pastor's wife when Bob and I first got married. Once when I was going through a very tough spot, I talked to Sis Frankie. She became my accountability partner. I have confidence in her prayers.

Unfortunately, Sis Frankie fell and broke her hip the other day. Hope and pray that she is doing ok and that the pain isn't too bad. We love you, Sis Frankie!


In other news, I just discovered that my cousin Luke and his wife Sam have a blog: http://schaperpersuasion.blogspot.com/ . Luke is Steve's son for all of you who are trying to remember our family tree! Drop by and say hello. I know, I know...it's been around for a while I just didn't know about it.

Sunday, July 19, 2009

What are you holding on to? (One of my favorite stories.)

The Pearl Necklace

The cheerful girl with bouncy golden curls was almost five. Waiting with her mother at the checkout stand, she saw them: a circle of glistening white pearls in a pink foil box.

"Oh please, Mommy. Can I have them? Please, Mommy, please!"

Quickly the mother checked the back of the little foil box and then looked back into the pleading blue eyes of her little girl's upturned face.

"A dollar ninety-five. That's almost $2.00. If you really want them, I'll think of some extra chores for you and in no time you can save enough money to buy them for yourself. Your birthday's only a week away and you might get another crisp dollar bill from Grandma."

As soon as Jenny got home, she emptied her penny bank and counted out 17 pennies. After dinner, she did more than her share of chores and she went to the neighbor and asked Mrs. McJames if she could pick dandelions for ten cents.

On her birthday, Grandma did give her another new dollar bill and at last she had enough money to buy the necklace.

Jenny loved her pearls. They made her feel dressed up and grown up. She wore them everywhere--Sunday school, kindergarten, even to bed. The only time she took them off was when she went swimming or had a bubble bath. Mother said if they got wet, they might turn her neck green.

Jenny had a very loving daddy and every night when she was ready for bed, he would stop whatever he was doing and come upstairs to read her a story. One night when he finished the story, he asked Jenny, "Do you love me?"

"Oh yes, Daddy. You know that I love you."

"Then give me your pearls."

"Oh, Daddy, not my pearls. But you can have Princess--the white horse from my collection. The one with the pink tail. Remember, Daddy? The one you gave me. She's my favorite."

"That's okay, Honey. Daddy loves you. Good night." And he brushed her cheek with a kiss.

About a week later, after the story time, Jenny's daddy asked again, "Do you love me?"

"Daddy, you know I love you."

"Then give me your pearls."

"Oh Daddy, not my pearls. But you can have my babydoll. The brand new one I got for my birthday. She is so beautiful and you can have the yellow blanket that matches her sleeper."

"That's okay. Sleep well. God bless you, little one. Daddy loves you." And as always, he brushed her cheek with a gentle kiss.

A few nights later when her daddy came in, Jenny was sitting on her bed with her legs crossed Indian-style. As he came close, he noticed her chin was trembling and one silent tear rolled down her cheek.

"What is it, Jenny? What's the matter?"

Jenny didn't say anything but lifted her little hand up to her daddy. And when she opened it, there was her little pearl necklace. With a little quiver,she finally said, "Here, Daddy. It's for you."

With tears gathering in his own eyes, Jenny's kind daddy reached out with one hand to take the dime-store necklace, and with the other hand he reached into his pocket and pulled out a blue velvet case with a strand of genuine pearls and gave them to Jenny.

He had them all the time. He was just waiting for her to give up the dime-store stuff so he could give her genuine treasure.

What are you hanging on to?

--- Author Unknown

Friday, June 19, 2009

And the World's Greatest Dad Award goes to....

MY Dad, of course!
Happy Father's Day to one of the greatest men I know. I talk to people all the time who tell me how much Dad has helped them in various ways. He always does it quietly--and I usually find out by accident! He is one of the most generous and giving people you will ever meet. He cares deeply about others. I'm honored to call him Dad and to continue to be the recipient of that generosity. I love you, Dad!